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Ellen's husband Rog loves a crafty swig; she worries he'll be spotted and embarrass her. Should he put a lid on it or should she enter into the spirit of things? You decide ...

Alicia and Tola, now in their late 30s, met on an internet chatroom in the 90s. They reconnected through Facebook years later and remain close, despite living on opposite sides of the Atlantic ...

You don't have to tell your daughter every detail, you could let her know that you were deeply unhappy ...

Being back in the city brought up some complex emotions for Isobel Mebus, but Michael's small, surprising act of compassion opened her heart ...

Rebecca thought she had a low sex drive until she got divorced and met Tom, who introduced her to dominant/submissive playHow do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously ...

Sophie, 28, a community manager in tech, meets Jack, 26, a manager of a food delivery startup ...

Why does Rivals' high-camp frolic through the 80s make Zoe Williams feel so nostalgic?; Is it wrong for Elon Musk to offer voters $1m a day to get Trump elected?; one woman's 'love story' to the caring profession; and Philippa Perry advises a reader ...

When is a friendship or romance dead? And is it OK to stop reading a book before the end? Here's how to know when to give up - and what to do next ...

It can be a mistake to guess how people will react to 'shocking' news. With sensitivity, time and love, many hurdles can be overcome ...